Celebrity interview - I loved my husband but I had to leave him - Mbong Amata

 

FEW months after her marriage of five years to famous film maker, Jeta Amata crashed, Mbong, a fast-rising Nollywood actress says they are still good friends.

In an interview ,pretty Mbong, 28, opened up on fond memories of her marriage and why she was never bothered by all the negative comments that trailed their split in October, 2013. She also talked about her career and much more.

Mbong who is based in the USA is in the country for the shoot, press review and premiere of Emem Isong’s latest movie, Apaye: A Mother’s Love, starring star actors, Clarion Chukwurah, Kanayo O. Kanayo, Belinda Effah, among many others. She played Swam, the heroine’s first child and daughter.

 

Apaye: A Mother’s Love, is a moving story of one woman’s quest to succeed in the face of hostilities. Inspired by true events, it is the story of Elder Irene Yepayeye Uriah, born in the creeks of what is now Bayelsa State, who was left to fend for her six children all alone. She struggled and toiled to provide for her family and to make sure they enjoyed the life she never had. Against all odds, she became a woman of substance in a community that never believed any good could come from her. The biopic, according to Emem Isong’s Royal Arts Academy, the producers, premiered on Friday, March 7, 2014, at Silverbird Cinemas, Victoria Island, Lagos.

Mbong Amata began her career in the much acclaimed movie, Amazing Grace. She has also starred in popular films like Black November, Mutanda, Wheel of Change, Reloaded, Forgetting June, Darima’s Dilemma, among others.

Jeta Amata met Mbong when she was just 16 in Calabar in 2001, at a movie audition. They started dating when she was 18. In 2008, they had their daughter and got married that same year. The couple later moved to Los Angeles, California, USA, where they make iconic movies.

But late last year, Jeta and Mbong shocked the world with the unpalatable news of their split, which was rather amicable.

Since their separation, Mbong has kept to herself but on Monday, February 10, 2014, she opened up , reminiscing on her union of five years and why marriage is not her priority at the moment.

Jeta Amata separated from his wife, Mbong Amata in 2013 without a lot of questions from the public, the estrange couple made it known that they are going away in peace after years of marriage, a marriage that resulted in a five year daughter, Mbong has finally spoken and explained that she is still friend with Jeta, though, she is not in a relationship presently and is not thinking of marriage anytime soon.

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Would you consider the role you played in Emem Isong's new film, “Apaye” as your most challenging role in movies?

I played the role of Swam, Apaye’s first child and daughter, who eventually got pregnant out of wedlock. I don't think I would use the word “challenging” because it's a real life story. It was more emotional for me than challenging because one has her own personal struggles and emotions. All these things we have to deal with on a daily basis. It was easy for me to be that character you saw in the movie. The woman's life was very amiable as well as emotional when she had to raise her six children amid abject poverty. It was very easy for me to break into that person to play the role in the movie.

I must appreciate the family of Elder Irene Yepayeye Uriah for their co-operation all through the shoot. They were all simply amazing. It is their humility that kills me. They are approachable, personable and so humble to a fault. I feel like a lot of people should emulate lifestyles like theirs. No matter your status, just keep it real and stay humble. I had amazing and solid bond with the family. They were fantastic in every sense of it.

Would you relate the story to your own story?

It's very similar because I am a mother and I have a child. It's hard to be a mother as well as a woman. So, Apaye had to deal with raising six children by herself. I don't know how she was able to do it, and I don't know where she got the strength to push on and did all that she could for her children. It's hard, and that's how I can relate to her story, as a woman and a mum.

How challenging was it playing the role of Swam?

It was more emotional for me having to play that role. As a human being we all have our personal struggles and challenges. The story captured some part of my life. Apaye had six children and she single-handed raised her children. My mum at some point in her life had to cater for me and my siblings. She faced a lot of challenges making us what we are today.

How does it feel being part of the production?

It is a breath of fresh air for me because films like this, you don’t do every time in Nollywood. It is really expensive to pull off something like this. So, for me, it is refreshing to know we can achieve this great feat.

And the cast?

It was awesome getting to work with my senior colleagues, Clarion Chukwurah, Kanayo O. Kanayo and others. We had a great time shooting in the creeks of the Niger-Delta. So, it was a great bonding for us since we were working outside Lagos. We bonded as a family. We were part of the community and they will never forget us in a hurry because they made a lot of impact in our lives. And so did we. That was the first time Nollywood would be shooting in their community. It was fun and would remain memorable for us all. The crew was equally fantastic. Everyone brought in his expertise. From the producer, Emem Isong to the director, Desmond Elliot, I would say we had a competent crew.

You have been in the industry for a very long time, yet your face is rarely regular on screen?

I took some time off to have my baby in 2008. Later, I relocated to the United States, where I worked on one project or the other. Also, I really don't do a lot of mainstream films. For me, it's okay for me to feature in two to three films per year and I'm satisfied with that. I can have my daughter watch my films in 10 years from now. That's what matters to me, and not how many films I'm able to churn out in a year. For me, it has to do with selecting quality over quantity.

How long have you sojourned in the industry?

I have spent eleven years in Nollywood.I started my career in the much acclaimed movie,'Amazing Grace.” I also starred in popular films like 'Black November', 'Mutanda', 'Wheel of Change', 'Reloaded', 'Forgetting June', 'Darima’s Dilemma', among others.

Would say, “Apaye: The mother's love” relaunched you into the mainstream acting?

Yes, I would say so. I have started producing my own films. I just finished producing my first movie. And very soon, it would hit the market. You are going to be seeing more of me now than before. As a matter of fact, I have about three films that I'm going to release before the end of this month.

Becoming a producer?

I'm used to the ropes, I understand the terrain. I know how these things are done. I was once marriage to a film director, so, I'd understand what film making entails.

You are married to a film maker?

Once married to a film maker. But not any more.

What really happened?

Am I really going to say that? Life happened.

Were you ever worried by negative comments that trailed the crash of your marriage?

Never. I tried my best. I might not look strong but I’m very, very strong. If you are in show business or any business that puts you out there, you have to build a solid, great wall of China around you. My wall is very tall. I only hear about it, but I’m not moved one bit. I really don’t care what people say about my broken marriage because no one knows me like I know myself. So, I have a huge wall around my person.

You still bear Jeta Amata’s name?

Yes, does it change anything? It doesn't.

How you would describe your ex-husband?

Jeta is a great man, fantastic dad but life has to move on.

If you have the opportunity to star in his film, wouldn't you do so?

Why not. He was my friend before he became my husband. We had a great relationship. We are connected for life. We have a child together. If I see him, as often as I could, it doesn't change anything.

But you are not feeling the same way you felt when you met him?

That's relative!

And you are not in a fresh relationship?

I’m not in a fresh relationship.

Won’t you give marriage another chance?

I don’t really know, but I don’t want to say never. It is the future, I prefer to live in the now and see how that goes. But for now, it is about me doing more films, charity and raising my child. So, that is my priority.

At a time, you were only featuring in his movies. Was there any difference between then and now?

I did work with a lot of producers and directors at a time. But I featured more in Jeta's movies. Secondly, I think he was a fantastic director. He understands his onions. He knew my weak points and he also knew where he would touch to get the best out of me as an actor. There are a little difference here and there. But it's great that I'm beginning to get the opportunity to work with more producers and directors than I did in the past.

Did you have any formal training in acting?

Not at all. I was watching an interview session on CNN, where a Hollywood actor revealed that at some point in his career, despite the great experience he had in drama and film, he decided to take up a three years course in acting. Sometimes, we shouldn't be too comfortable because we are making a lot of money from what we do. We should actually make out time to enhance our skills.

What did you study?

I studied History and International Relations. I had a lot of dreams and career choices but none of them was acting. Fortunately, I found myself in the acting profession and I'm loving it.